According to Urban Dictionary, a Mesbian is "a man with feminine qualities who still likes women, or, to put it more crudely, a male lesbian." They choose cider over beer at a pub; When you tell them you're going to a yoga class, they ask what kind; They're into journaling and may or may not own a pottery wheel; They call Tori Amos just 'Tori'; Their hair products contain beeswax.
